Sam Sambasivam: Unrepentent
Wife Beater
June 7, 1999: Sambasivam gave up on running but he is still
whining that it's not fair. injusticebusters think it is perfectly
fair and we will leave this page as it is just in case Sam thinks
the public memory is short and decides to go to somewhere he
is not so well known to try to relaunch his political career.
Too bad someone didn't stop Bill Clinton
at the local level before he got a chance to "act out"
his sociopathy upon the world! The
Colin Clay connection to this story Cults | False
Memory Syndrome starring Saskatoon's own university chaplain:
Colin Clay | Deconstructing the
Victim Machine | Martensville
Sam Sambasivam: not just
a wife-beater who has put his past behind him but a calculating
liar. Wifebeating is not a misdemeanor like a parking ticket
where you pay your fine and it's forgotten. Sam Sambasivam received
one year's probation for viciously beating Arloa. It may have
happened ten years ago but the assaults went on for more than
ten years. He has never said he is sorry but has instead put
the blame on her. According to the May 26 StarPhoenix, Sambasivam
is now claiming that the whole ten years of beatings was really
a single "shove", not even worth mentioning except
that the NDP brass had advised him he ought to. injusticebusters received a letter disagreeing with our viewpoint on the Sambasivam
candidacy.
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During 1992 and 1993, Sam Sambavisam
was the centre of a bitter controversy which divided the left
in Saskatoon. This would be just another squalid domestic tale,
fairly common in this abuse-tolerant province. He has gone through
the political steps, holding executive positions in organizations
like Equal Justice for All and inside the union. Now Sam wants
to become a Member of the Legislative Assembly. Does anybody
want this cunning man representing them? No. Face it Sam. It's
over.
- Sandra Mitchell has
come out in support of Sambasivam (May 21 StarPhoenix). The suggestion
is that those of us who oppose Sam's candidacy are racist. Give
us a break. It is racist to expect a lower standard from Sri
Lankans or anyone else. Sandra and Bob have been sucked in by this
charming liar and justify it now with phony liberalism. They
claim to have known Sam for many years. That would mean that
they also know Arloa. Are they truly buying Sam's story that
Arloa is crazy and vindictive? Do they disagree with Dr. Margaret
Mahood's June 24, 1991 assessment that : "As in April, 1988,
I find that Arloa is a very intelligent, capable, conscientious
parent. She has shown remarkable strength of character, capacity
for clear insightful judgment and loving generosity when coping
with the tragedy of the breakdown of her marriage and its devastating
effects on the family. . . It should be noted that there is nothing
in Arloa's history to suggest that she has ever suffered from
a major psychiatric illness or indeed that she should ever have
been treated with psycholtropic drugs. Her emotional reaction
to depression and anxiety is reactive to the events in her life
and entirely appropriate. . ."
- The beating he was convicted
of was extremely vicious. His wife was convalescing for many
weeks.
- When Arloa finally got
it together to stand up for herself, Sam told her he would "kill
[him]self and the children and leave [her] to mourn the bones"
and that "you (Arloa) will be the next JoAnn Thatcher but
I (Sam) won't be convicted like Colin."(This was part of
the first letter I wrote to Roy Romanow and all Saskatoon MLA's
Dec. 5, 1991. The letter was urging the party not continue to
allow him to rise in its the ranks.)
- While his wife was in
interval house recoveringbeating, he led friends to believe that
she was in a psychiatric ward.
- He continued to spread
a rumour that she was a nutcase, while he was continuing to beat
her and psychologically terrorize her.
- For a time, the Saskatoon
Police were so aware of his wife's need for protection that if
she dialed 911, several squad cars would be there within a few
minutes.
- He took advantage of
her incapacitation to get custory of his children. When Arloa
recovered sufficiently to try to gain some control over her life,
the court awarded him generous visiting rights. Sam intensified
the terror against her. He had already received a suspended sentence
and seemed to take this as a licence to beat.
- Sam Sambavisam did not
deny that he had beaten his wife since the conviction. He told
Marjaleena Repo that "they could never prove anything"
because he knew how to beat her in such a way that only soft
tissues were involved. He also told Marjaleena that the beatings
intensified after she first complained to police.
- While his wife was in
hospital following a complication arising out of her treatment
from the beatings, he told Mark Koenker that it should be all
right to have sexual intercourse with your daughter if your wife
was not available.
- Mark Koenker refused
to confirm that he had said this and Sam was quickly moved to
Regina to manage Serge Kjawa's election campaign. (1992)
- Every single Saskatoon
MLA Roy Romanow received a full package informing them of all
the details of Sam Sambasivam's misdeeds.
- Several people made
the comment that he should not be blamed because wife-beating
was "part of Sri Lankan culture"! In fact several people
who have been to Sri Lanka or who are from there state that if
he had done the same acts in Sri Lanka, he would have been banished
from the community , after having received a sound beating from
his wife's brothers
- Murray Dobbin and Larry
Haiven spoke to Sam after several concerned women spoke to them.
they then wrote an article about abuse "in the movement"
for Briarpatch magazine.
- Sambasivam continued
to rise through the ranks of the labour movement and the NDP.
- He told numerous individuals
that his wife had lost her ambition (she was going to go to medical
school) since he had met her in Sri Lanka. He felt himself to
be superior to her.
- He thoroughly exploited
her family.
- Sam thinks that everything
that he has done is just fine. Wr beating his wife and then was
given full custody of his kids while she was recovering in hospital!
- Sam Sambasivam understands
politics very well and he is very ambitious.
- Sam Sambasivam's preemptive
informing his constituency organization that he had "issues"
in his past is nothing but a clever ploy to downplay the seriousness
of his offence.
- His new allegation that
the Social Services' fraud case in 1991 was all Arloa's doing
is slander, plain and simple. The truth is that Arloa had some
resources from her parents when she married Sam. By the time
Sam got through with her, she had lost everything.
- Consider this: Sam's
complete lack of remorse regarding his treatment of Arloa suggests
that he used her from day one when he first met her in Sri Lanka.
She was his ticket to Canada and once he was established, he
cast her aside like so much garbage.
The wifebeating
is not just a "mistake" for which he has "paid
the price!" He is violent, a liar, and apparently has members
of a heavy union behind him. He is absolutely unfit for any kind
of public office.
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Early in the 1990s, Arloa found herself
under the spell of Colin Clay,
Anglican minister and university chaplain who spearheaded the
hysteria around supposed Satanic cult activity in Saskatchewan.
Clay convinced Arloa that Sam was probably part of a Satanic
cult and Arloa constructed a scenario to support this. Evidence
for her belief included a horrifying account of how Sam's eyes
would turn red. "like devil's eyes," leading up to
beating her. The sad part of this is that there was adequate
evidence, both from eyewitnesses and medical reports, as well
as police and court douments which show that he beat her brutally.
In her beaten condition she was susceptible to a charlatan like
Clay. He has much to answer for here. Arloa was so convinced
that Sam and his associates were part of a Satanic cult that
she forced those of us who were going to bat for her to put some
distance between ourselves and Arloa's crazy stories.
The other villain in this piece is Arloa's
lawyer, D. Jane Olson who continually warned Arloa to stay away
from activists while she collected legal fees. Arloa lost her
house, her children, her health and her life as she had known
it.
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